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BUILD STRONG ROOTS. FIND YOUR PATH.

Grow Deep Before You Grow Tall

Growing up is about more than getting into college, starting a career, or figuring out what comes next. We help young people build the roots to navigate all of it with confidence, character, and purpose.
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The years that shape us

You don't have to have it all figured out.

High school, college, and the first years of adulthood are filled with choices about where you’re going, but they’re also about something much bigger: discovering who you are, what matters to you, and the kind of life you want to build.
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FINDING YOUR DIRECTION

There’s a lot ahead. Where do you begin?

College. A major. A career. Relationships. Independence. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t having too few choices, it’s learning how to make choices that actually reflect who you are.

At Oak & Elephant Lab, we help you slow down, explore what matters, and begin choosing your path with greater intention.
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GROWING YOUR ROOTS

Before deciding where you’re going, understand what grounds you.

Your values, experiences, strengths, relationships, family story, interests, and beliefs all contribute to the person you’re becoming.

We create space to explore those things, because knowing yourself makes it easier to make decisions about everything else.
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WALKING WITH WISDOM

Some things are easier to navigate with someone who’s traveled farther.
You should make your own decisions and choose your own path. But that doesn’t mean you have to navigate every decision alone.
Mentorship gives you someone to listen, ask good questions, offer perspective, challenge you when needed, and share a little wisdom from farther down the road.
Six areas. One lifelong journey.

THE OAK & ELEPHANT FRAMEWORK

Roots → Strength → Wisdom → Relationships → Leadership → Legacy
From understanding who you are to deciding how you want to contribute, our framework explores six areas that help young people build lives rooted in character, strengthened by experience, and guided by wisdom.
ROOTS
Know what grounds you.

ROOTS

Explore your values, identity, experiences, beliefs, strengths, and personal story. Before deciding where you're going, it helps to understand what you're standing on.

What keeps you grounded when everything around you is changing?
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Ki Siadatan

Ki Siadatan — Founder and Mentor

Ki Siadatan

Founder and Mentor
Ki Siadatan has spent much of his career leading people, building teams, mentoring emerging leaders, and helping others navigate moments of growth and change. But Oak & Elephant Lab grew from something deeper than his professional experience. It grew from a belief he has carried for decades: young people benefit enormously from having trusted mentors in their lives who will listen, challenge them, believe in them, and share some of the wisdom gained from traveling a little farther down the road. Ki’s career has taken him from the technology world, where he held senior leadership roles including Vice President of Global Advertising Sales at Microsoft, to more than two decades working in healthcare and senior living. Along the way, he has hired, developed, coached, and mentored people at virtually every stage of their careers. His work has taught him as much about people as it has about business: how character is formed, how relationships shape us, how we respond when things don’t go according to plan, and why the most impressive résumé means very little if we haven’t thought about the kind of person we want to become. His commitment to young people, however, extends well beyond the workplace. For more than 25 years, Ki has mentored students and young adults through schools, community organizations, Rotary, Rotaract, and Interact. He has spent years volunteering alongside students, supporting youth leadership, teaching, listening, and creating opportunities for younger generations to connect with people and experiences outside their usual circles. He is also a father, and that experience has reinforced something he believes deeply: preparing a young person for the future means far more than helping them get into the right college, choose the right major, or land the right first job. It means helping them develop roots strong enough to know who they are and the wisdom to decide who they want to become.
That belief became Oak & Elephant Lab.
Ki doesn’t approach mentoring as someone with a formula for how another person should live. He brings experience, curiosity, perspective, and a willingness to ask questions that don’t always have easy answers. Sometimes the conversation is about a college application or career decision. Other times it’s about failure, relationships, confidence, leadership, happiness, purpose, or defining success on your own terms.
The goal is never to create a younger version of the mentor.
It’s to help young people become more thoughtful, grounded, confident versions of themselves.
That is the work of Oak & Elephant Lab.
Grow deep. Walk wisely. Live with purpose.

Our Programs

Rooted & Ready - College prep that goes beyond getting in.

Rooted & Ready - College prep that goes beyond getting in.

Rooted & Ready is a college preparation and mentoring program that goes beyond applications and acceptance letters. Students receive practical guidance through college exploration, selection, essays, applications, and decision-making while also developing the self-awareness, confidence, resilience, and independence they'll need to thrive once they arrive. The goal isn't simply to help students get into college. It's to help them enter this next chapter knowing themselves better and feeling genuinely ready for what comes next.

$597/yr
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Rooted & Rising - Mentoring college students as they discover who they are and what’s next.

Rooted & Rising - Mentoring college students as they discover who they are and what’s next.

Rooted & Rising is a mentoring and leadership program for university students navigating the transition into adulthood. Through the Oak & Elephant principles, students explore purpose, relationships, resilience, happiness, leadership, and what success means to them, building strong roots in who they are while gaining the wisdom and confidence to shape the life they want to lead. The program combines 1:1 mentoring with small-group cohorts, providing personalized guidance while connecting students with peers beyond their usual social circles. Together, they share experiences, learn from different perspectives, and begin building a broader network of relationships that can grow with them well beyond their university years.

$997/yr
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The Grounded Leader - A Leadership & Life Development Program for Emerging Professionals.

The Grounded Leader - A Leadership & Life Development Program for Emerging Professionals.

The Grounded Leader is a 1:1 coaching and mentoring program for emerging professionals who want to become thoughtful, confident leaders without losing sight of the life they’re building beyond work. Grounded in the Oak & Elephant principles, the program develops character, resilience, wisdom, relationships, purpose, and leadership, helping young professionals build strong foundations for meaningful careers, healthy lives, and the kind of leadership others can trust.

$1,997/yr
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We Were Never Meant to Figure It All Out Alone

Young people don’t need someone to map out their lives. They need trusted people who can offer perspective, ask better questions, and walk alongside them as they find their own way.

We Were Never Meant to Figure It All Out Alone
GOOD QUESTIONS

Frequently Asked Questions

A few things you may be wondering about Oak & Elephant, how it works, and whether it’s right for you.
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Is this therapy or is Oak & Elephant for people who are struggling?

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Not at all. Oak & Elephant isn’t therapy, and you don’t need to have a problem to benefit from mentorship. It’s a place to step outside the noise of school, work, expectations, and everyday life to think more deeply about who you are, what matters to you, and where you want to go, alongside someone who has traveled a little farther down the road.
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I've read career books and tried self-help before. How is this different?

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Because this isn’t something you consume. It’s a relationship. Through real conversations, reflection, and honest feedback, you’ll have someone in your corner who listens, asks good questions, challenges you when needed, and brings the perspective of someone who has walked farther down the road.
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What if I don’t know what direction I want to take yet?

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That's exactly where the first week starts. Roots come before direction. We begin with who you are before asking where you're going.
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Life is already pretty busy. Is this going to feel like one more thing on my plate?

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Oak & Elephant is designed to fit into your life, not compete with it. Whether through 1:1 mentoring or a small-group cohort, the experience creates intentional space to step away from the day-to-day, reflect, connect, and focus on the bigger questions that are easy to put off when life gets busy.
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Is Oak & Elephant just about school and careers?

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No. School and work matter, but they’re only part of a life. We also talk about relationships, resilience, purpose, happiness, leadership, community, difficult decisions, and what success means to you. Oak & Elephant is ultimately about building a life, not simply building a résumé.
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What’s the difference between 1:1 mentoring and a cohort?

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1:1 mentoring gives you dedicated time to focus on your own questions, goals, decisions, and experiences. Cohorts offer something equally valuable: the chance to learn from different perspectives, connect with peers beyond your usual social circle, and build relationships along the way. We believe both personal guidance and meaningful connection matter, which is why Oak & Elephant offers both.
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Which Oak & Elephant program is right for me?

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It depends on where you are in your journey. Rooted & Ready is designed for high school students preparing for college and what comes with it. Rooted & Rising is for college students exploring who they are and what they want their lives to become. The Grounded Leader is for emerging professionals building meaningful careers, lives, and leadership skills. And if you’re not quite sure where you fit, that’s okay. We’ll help you find the right place to start.
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